Why I Would Love To Have A Man Like Gomez Addams.

Halloween is near now that we have entered the month of October and its also my favorite month, holiday, and my favorite season all in one.

Favorite month because its my birthday month! holiday because I am a fan of thriller movies along with hearing scary stories and all the chilly movies that are coming out. favorite season because autumn is the perfect weather and I love seeing the yellow and orange leaves on the trees.

Why Gomez Addams? The Addams Family has always been one of my favorites for this time of year from watching the original tv series to watching both the movies. The Addams Family is known to be an abnormal family, but a comedy one at that.

However I feel like Gomez is overlooked when it comes to being the inspiration of how men should really love their wives.

Probably because it seems bizarre of his dark creepy love for his wife Morticia and everything about him, but what if I told you he is doing something right that we are missing an actual healthy love relationship appearing before our eyes?

Yes some of the things he says is a bit ridiculous but if you leave out the bizarre things and really understand what he is saying to her; it is him constantly expressing his words of love for her.

One of my love language is words of affirmations, I would feel love when you tell me by expressing it through your words and even writing it through a love letter towards me.

Gomez Addams is constantly expressing his love for her every single day the way how Romeo expressed his love for his Juliet through their words and sharing their thoughts of them.

One of his famous pet name for her is "cara mia" which literally means "my darling" in italian. She is very precious to him, now that is very romantic to me.

Another love language of mine is physical touch and Gomez treats his wife the goddess she is to him by worshipping the ground she walks on, stealing kisses, kissing her hands, arms, neck. I bet behind closed doors he has kissed every inch on her body because he just can't get enough of her.

Even the way he looks at her, I want a man to look at me the way Gomez looks at his wife I am so jealous of Morticia. Even when she speaks he can't help but listen to her as if her words are the breath of life and without them he can't breathe.

Which also tells me they definitely do not have a sexless marriage, when people imagine what their sex life is like they probably thinks its very similar to BDSM and fifty shades of grey. which I can also see that as well but I wouldn't be surprise that although that be something they enjoy together, Gomez favorite in the bedroom is constantly making love to his wife instead.

(*sigh* Im getting annoyed already of how jealous I am.)

My final love language that Gomez also meets is quality time. Doing things that she likes, that he express how much he loves her and my favorite that he does with his wife is dance! they would dance the waltz and tango of love to each other and enjoy it because its with each other. The whole time while they are dancing the way he looks at her is the best!

"How long has it been since we last waltz?"

They also would dance silly and enjoy it just as much, they know how to laugh and enjoy each others company, they are not only lovers but they are best friends.

What I love is that Gomez doesn't mind her company at all and welcomes her presence anytime and anywhere, if she needs him to be her lover he be that for her, if she need him to be her best friend, he will be that for her, if she needs him to be a listener he would gladly do it for her.

Gomez would die and take the bullet for her instead of living without her, if she were to die he would want to die right next to her for as he said "To live without you, only that would be torture"

These top 3 love language is what I need from a husband one day and Gomez shows just that to his beloved wife. the way how he loves on his wife is also him placing a foundation for his kids on what love and a healthy marriage is suppose to look like.

Meaning his daughter and son would not be in a marriage where it is unhealthy and toxic because of what they witness all their lives growing up on how a husband and daddy is suppose to love the wife and mommy.

Even after having kids you don't neglect your wife and still constantly love on her for without her there is no life to give and bring into this world.

Gomez still dates his wife no matter how long they been married, he knows the marriage is just as important to invest as to being a father and provider of the house. he knows a happy wife is a happy life.

So where is my Gomez Addams?